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He has "no more morals than a tomcat," to quote Prescott again, and is eternally unrepentant. Like these male antiheroes, Vor was a drifter of sorts during that strange, liminal summer after graduating from college: And yet historically, there haven't been many female picaresque narratives. There's Daniel Defoe's Moll Flandersa novel that purports to be the true account of a female criminal who thieves, prostitutes herself, and marries five times Adult seeking sex tonight OH Akron 44311 her wily quest to avoid poverty.

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